Many years ago I told an ex girlfriend that I was BI. I had been going to say GAY but I chickened out at the last second. We spoke again 2 nights ago. Long discussion and Even tho I like sex with men and women we concluded that I am a GAY man that has sex with women too. That seems a definition of BI. But It never felt "right". Telling her ( the woman that took my virginity, and I hers, followed by years of Straight sex) that I was GAY and her acceptance was an epiphany. In the two days since I have been on such an emotional high. I am almost giddy. I'm like a kid with a new toy I want to show everyone. I've stopped myself from telling my wife and my son that I am GAY and how absolutely happy I am to be GAY, several times. I'm at peace with myself like I haven't been in 30 years. I am euphoric. I have always feared discovery and now that I have gained some measure of acceptance, I know, that one day I will tell my wife.
My advice to all the other married faggots out there is simple - find someone that will accept you and come out to them. It is Liberating.
Many years ago I told an ex girlfriend that I was BI. I had been going to say BI but I chickened out at the last second. We spoke again 2 nights ago. Long discussion and Even tho I like sex with men and women we concluded that I am a GAY man that has sex with women too. That seems a definition of BI. But I never felt "right" Telling her ( the woman that took my virginity, and I hers, followed by years of Straight sex) that I was GAY and her acceptance was an epiphany. In the two days since I have been on such an emotional high. I am almost giddy. I'm like a kid with a new toy I want to show everyone. I've stopped myself for telling my wife and my son that I am GAY and how absolutely happy I am to be GAY, several times I'm at peace with myself like I haven't been in 30 years. I am euphoric. I have always feared discovery and now that I have gained some measure of acceptance, I know, that one day I will tell my wife.
My advice to all the other married faggots out there is simple - find someone that will accept you and come out to them. It is Liberating.